Sunday, 29 August 2010

Communiction

I found this article from the independent newspaper. I thought i'd share this with you.

When I spend time with my children, I create a set of rules. The amount of time they can spend on the laptop etc. More importantly I ensure that still get some reading and writing down and make a point of sitting down and have breakfast lunch and dinner.

I think it's important to embrace technology. I think it's even more importnat to find a balance.

Tell me how it is in your household?

http://www.guardian.co.uk/lifeandstyle/2010/aug/14/texts-twitter-email-children
A warm smile is the universal language of kindness.
William Arthur Ward
A part of kindness consists in loving people more than they deserve.
Joseph Joubert
A laugh, to be joyous, must flow from a joyous heart, for without kindness, there can be no true joy. Thomas Carlyle

Friday, 27 August 2010

The best thing about the future is that it comes one day at a time.
Abraham Lincoln
Let him who would enjoy a good future waste none of his present.
Roger Babson

Tuesday, 24 August 2010

We must use time wisely and forever realize that the time is always ripe to do right.
Nelson Mandela
It always seems impossible until its done.
Nelson Mandela
A good head and a good heart are always a formidable combination.
Nelson Mandela

Friday, 20 August 2010

Humility is one of the keys to success...
I don't know what the key to success is but the key to failure is trying to please everyone.

Bill Cosby

Wednesday, 18 August 2010

Beauty is only skin deep. I think what's really important is finding a balance of mind, body and spirit.
Jennifer Lopez

Monday, 16 August 2010

“If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion.”
Dalai Lama quotes
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If you find it in your heart to care for somebody else, you will have succeeded.
Maya Angelou
Love begins by taking care of the closest ones - the ones at home.
Mother Teresa
Whatever words we utter should be chosen with care for people will hear them and be influenced by them for good or ill.
Buddha

Sunday, 15 August 2010

“If you want to feel rich, just count the things you have that money can't buy”
“There is no love without forgiveness, and there is no forgiveness without love.”

Bryant H. McGill
A smile is the light in the window of your face that tells people you're at home. ~Author Unknown
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“Wisdom is nothing more than healed pain.”

Robert Gary Lee
“We must embrace pain and burn it as fuel for our journey.”

Kenji Miyazawa
Love means exposing yourself to the pain of being hurt, deeply hurt by someone you trust.”

Friday, 13 August 2010

“If we're growing, we're always going to be out of our comfort zone.”

John Maxwell
" If my mind can conceive it, and my heart can believe it, I know I can achieve it.”

Jesse Jackson
"The greatest barrier to success is the fear of failure.”

Sven Goran Eriksson

Thursday, 12 August 2010

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He is rich or poor according to what he is, not according to what he has. Henry Ward Beecher
If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion. Dalai Lama
Happiness and sadness run parallel to each other. When one takes a rest, the other one tends to take up the slack. Hazelmarie Elliott

Wednesday, 11 August 2010

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Tuesday, 10 August 2010

Making mistakes is a good thing only if we learn from them.

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If you want to be loved, be lovable.
Ovid
I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love.
Mother Teresa
A baby is born with a need to be loved - and never outgrows it.
Frank Howard Clark

Monday, 9 August 2010

"You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with" How are these people currently influencing your life?
What are three things you're thankful for today?
Faith is taking the first step even when you don't see the whole staircase. Martin Luther King, Jr
Dreams are the touchstones of our character.
Henry David Thoreau
Failure is success if we learn from it.
Malcolm Forbes
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The only source of knowledge is experience. Albert Einstein
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The way is not in the sky. The way is in the heart. Buddha

Sunday, 8 August 2010

The road to success is always under construction.
No one saves us but ourselves. No one can and no one may. We ourselves must walk the path. Buddha
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A superior man is modest in his speech, but exceeds in his actions. Confucius
Gratitude is not only the greatest of virtues, but the parent of all others.
We make a living by what we get, we make a life by what we give. - Winston Churchill
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Never interrupt your enemy when he is making a mistake. Napoleon Bonaparte

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I recently have been challenged with a minor teenager issue regarding my mixed race daughter and her hair. It's something trying to tell her how beautiful she is without her wanted to change her hair, and trust me she is beautiful. Then again i would say that!!

The thing is though she wants to fit in with her peer group without seeming to be the odd one out! I bet some of you have been their before.

Anyway previous attempts have fell on deaf ears so instead of banning her from doing anything and creating a horrible dent in our relationship and a rebellious child at that, i've shown understanding and compassion. With a bit of flexibility and love we have managed to find a balance.

It amazing how just a few simple steps achieve so much.

1. Address the issue.
2. Talk and share your feelings.
3. Show how far you are prepared to accept it.
4. HAVE FAITH!
5. Continued support.

Remember you were young once!

Till next time.

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Friday, 6 August 2010

Not life, but good life, is to be chiefly valued.
Socrates

Thursday, 5 August 2010

Forgiveness is the key to action and freedom.
Hannah Arendt

Wednesday, 4 August 2010

An eye for an eye only ends up making the whole world blind.
Mohandas Gandhi

Tuesday, 3 August 2010

Always remember that the future comes one day at a time.
Dean Acheson

Monday, 2 August 2010

It is better to be beautiful than to be good. But... it is better to be good than to be ugly.
Oscar Wilde
Great works are performed not by strength but by perseverance.
Samuel Johnson

Sunday, 1 August 2010

“There is only one corner of the universe you can be certain of improving, and that's your own self.”

Aldous Huxley
“There is only one corner of the universe you can be certain of improving, and that's your own self.”

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